Sunday, February 7, 2010

The 80: 20 rules in relationship

What is the 80:20 rule or principle?

Was talking to a friend about this and it makes me wonder. If everyone follows the 80: 20 rules in this world, then they will not be any seperations, adultery and unhappiness in lifes. But does everyone really applies this in their life? Does it really work? I think it's still a question mark to a lot of people... What is the 80: 20 principle? Most people only get about 80% of what they need in a relationship, and the 20% should not be that big of a deal. The problem is there are a lot of people who only focus on what they are not getting. Which caused to they sometimes give up on the 80% as the remainding 20% looks great because they are not getting it and think that they must have it all.... But unfortunately, the truth is, no relationship is perfect as we all have flaws and will fall short in life. NO ONE IS PERFECT!!!!!

If we are perfect, we will not be in this world... In many areas, we need to know what is the other parties NEEDS and DESIRES are and not just sexually. Your unspoken expectations are a relationship killer!!!!! COMMUNICATION PEOPLE!!! COMMUNICATION!!!!Accept the 80% and work on the 20% and enjoy what you have and don't think otherwise. Treasure your God-filled marriage and relationship with each other. As humans, none of us are perfect!!!! :P Be careful with your decision between what you WANT and NEED in your life. Somewhere along the way, you will find a woman or a man who will be more charming and sensetive, More alluring, more thoughtful, more attractive and able to fulfill the other 20% of what you need. But please bare in mind, that is only the 20 %... are you going to let go of the 80% then?But how long will this be? There are always someone better compare of what you have now... but are you going to keep on searching until the end of your life? Just be happy with what you have.... Treasure and try to work out the relationship. No one says that relationship is an easy thing... it takes a lot of effort, communication, love, trust and time... If you can find someone with the 80%.... treasure it!!!!. Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

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